Family Story Matters

  Vital documents and genealogy records are not the only means of revealing family history. Grandparents often tell childhood stories while sitting around the holiday table. Write those down, or better yet, record them in their own voice.  In addition, hand-me-down clothes, antique furniture, favorite toys, and various knick-knacks around the house ALL have a story to tell. In our family, Christmas traditions abound. The Coleman family focused on decorations (always the Friday after Thanksgiving), Christmas carols, and favorite holiday movies. The Totoro family, not surprisingly, focused on the food. As I mentioned a few weeks ago, I collected these well-worn recipes into a book, Italian Family Christmas , as a tribute to Cora, so her legacy will continue well beyond the next generation. One of the most authentic recipes, and my husband's favorite, is STRUFOLI or Italian Honey Balls. I wrote about this Christmas Eve treat on another blog , and the Kansas City Star featured th...

  Sometimes Family History extends beyond bloodlines. Meet Cora. Carmela Petriello McKee. Cora and her husband Gerald lived upstairs from my husband's mom and dad. Cora never had children, and for nearly fourteen years, it appeared Al and Angie Totoro wouldn't either. When Geoff was born, both couples rejoiced. But when Gerald died two years later, Cora became family. Cora came from a family of nine. Both her parents were born in the Campania region of Italy -- in a small village about an hour from Naples.   Her parents likely immigrated to America sometime prior to 1890 because the 1930 census shows her three older siblings, Luigi (Louis), Giuseppe (Joseph), and Incoronata (Mary) were born in Pennsylvania between 1890 and 1895. Sicilia ship manifest 1901 Then the family of five apparently returned to the mother country because in 1901 they are listed on the Sicilia's  ship manifest. That passenger list shows two additional children added to the family: Francis (born...