Why Write (another) Blog?


Why write another blog? At this point, I have over a dozen blogs in various stages of production (most of them defunct). Why do I think this time will be different? 

My first foray into blogging was with My Cozy Book Nook. I began in 2009 and posted on a regular basis through 2013. At first, I enjoyed the limitations of a book review blog, and I met many online friends whom I still support today, such as Deb at ReaderBuzz, Candace at BethFishReads, Bryan at Still Unfinished, and JoAnn at GulfsideMusing. But ultimately, I felt too confined. And Impostor Syndrome continued to remind me that my reviews were not good enough, intelligent enough, succinct enough (you get the picture).

Subsequent blogs delved into the joys and challenges of Midlife. Stepping StonesRevising Life After 50, and Molly's Cozy Book Nook allowed me to connect with other women my age. I found comfort in learning I was not alone in my thoughts, experiences, or feelings. But alas, Impostor Syndrome reminded me that no one cared if I posted weekly, monthly, or ever at all. Consequently, my posts became far too infrequent. Eventually, they stopped altogether.

So why start another blog? Won't Impostor Syndrome attack again? Won't this be another strong, passionate start that fades into a lackluster finish?

Quite possibly.

But this time feels different.

Here are my five reasons to write yet another blog:

  1. I am passionate about the topic. Family has always been my top priority. I photographed milestone events since I was a child. I became a Creative Memories instructor because I embraced the mission of Preserving the Past - Enriching the Present - Inspiring Hope for the Future. I strongly believe that our past affects our present and impacts our future. Family Story is the theme that ties it all together.
  2. My Core Values align perfectly.
    1. Family (addressed above) 
    2. Life-Long Learning - Genealogy research is a never-ending opportunity to learn and discover. The same could be said for writing - or photography.
    3. Significance (leaving a legacy) - Everyone has a story to tell. We all have a life purpose. And our life affects others long after we have passed.
    4. Spirituality - Romans 8:28 is my life verse: ALL things work together for good to those that love God and have been called according to His purpose. Writing a faith legacy can powerfully impact the next generation.
    5. Exhortation (encouragement) - I am a teacher because I like to share. When I learn a new skill or piece of information, I instantly want to tell others - and encourage them to take the next steps. 
  3. I crave connection. As an introvert, I am shy and reserved. That does not mean, however, I am anti-social. In fact, I thrive on meaningful conversations. This online space allows me to connect with others in a significant way.
  4. The time is right. Now that I am retired, I can devote time to researching my own family history as well as sharing what I've learned with others. My days are no longer segmented into job vs hobbies. These are now one and the same. Also, I have honed my writing life over these past few years. I know the power of a regular writing routine. And I have a writing partner who will encourage me to continue if when I want to quit.
  5.  I'm ready to defeat Impostor Syndrome. I've mentioned this topic numerous times already (and I promise to go into more detail in my next post). But suffice it to say, I'm tired of listening to the lies. I know I am not an expert in genealogy -- or writing family narrative -- or photography. But that does not mean I cannot share my heart with others. 
I hope this bit of background information helps you better understand the person behind the blog.

Now tell me, kind reader, what sparks your interest in telling your family story?

8 comments:

  1. This is Kathleen Bailey, too lazy to find my sign-up information LOL, anyway just wanted to say hi and I enjoyed this post And I look forward as always to your writings.

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    1. Oh Kathleen... thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement. What are you currently writing?

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  2. Great blog post Molly! You have many important reasons for starting your blog and many will benefit from it. Thank you, also, for joining my FB group, Academy of Legacy Leaders. I hope you will share some of your blog posts with us from time to time :-)

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    1. Thank you SO much for visiting today, Taneya ... and for leaving a comment. I look forward to participating in your online FB group and learning from others in that community :)

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  3. I am new to you via Dawn at Enthusiastically Dawn today, and your posts have hit a chord with me! I am so excited to find someone else excited about genealogy research and sharing your experience. I am relatively new to the research, but not new to writing. I just haven't written much about my research yet. I've been saving it up for a future big post, and now, thanks to you, I believe I need to start sharing a little more about this process in smaller bites so it won't be so overwhelming when I finally get to the BIG STORY. You can find out more about me over at Closed Doors, Open Windows, https://pamelasopenwindow.blogspot.com/ I hope we can connect and encourage one another in our pursuits of discovering our family history! Have a blessed and wonderful day.

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    1. Pamela ... I look forward to connecting with you :) I loved the name of your blog, and I wholeheartedly agree with that statement!

      Dawn is not only enthusiastic but delightful! She inspires so many - myself included.

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  4. Looking forward to following this blog, Molly, as I've dabbled in genealogical work even before Ancestry and Family Search etc put files online...in 1989, I reserved a seat in a room at Registry House in downtown Edinburgh for a week to make inroads to my family history (that was where ALL Scottish records for the country were kept). All day, every day I searched through huge, dusty books requested via a slip of paper and delivered to my seat by elderly gentlemen in dust coats - staff of the archive shelves. Transcribing names and locations written in flowery cursive (no doubt with quill pen) took hours. but was so exciting.. actually touching the actual book of a baptism, marriage, death etc.. .the VERY book my great grandparents had stood in front of, I imagine a young couple signing their names on their wedding day. Unlike now on Ancestry or My Heritage hints didn't pop up to click yes or no to a pdf of the registry page. Pre- 2000's one scoured for clues which included visits to various Border Country graveyards (no Find A Grave.com) and addresses to view family homes(no Google Earth). The leaves of my family tree were created by hand on loose leaf paper, consisting of scribbled notes, with arrows and cross-outs (still have that red binder). Not trained in the need to note sources, I tried to remember the volumes as best as I could. Copies of birth, death,census documents cost quite a bit in UK, took weeks to receive in the mail and often ended up as a total waste of money if the clue I was looking for wasn't on that document or wrong person with same name. Anyway, that was then and this is now,, and I'm reading the details of your genealogical journey with great interest. How wonderful your mom bequeathed lists and keepsakes with helpful clues to steer your work! Over the years my own enthusiasm has peaked and waned: research dead ends left for years waiting for divorce, careers, child rearing, loss of a young father, remarriage etc to allow an opening for curiosity again. And I'm so glad that I had chances for pause because the LDS Family History teams as well as local/ national archives vaulted into the future with the internet, plus historic DNA work and subsequent 23&me tests have rewarded me with vast amounts of new data to name many more leaves and branches on my family tree.

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    1. Thank you so much for visiting my blog and sharing your genealogy journey! I'm not sure I would have the same dedication if online databases did not exist (although I love the image of elderly gentlemen in dust coats bringing you antique books filled with flowery cursive!) I hope I am as diligent as you and continue researching through the decades (or as long as I have here on earth).

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