Death Certificates: An Ancestral Treasure Trove

 


As I indicated last week, when I first began this genealogy adventure, my sole purpose was to discover my country of origin. I cared nothing about extended family or historical timelines. I simply wanted to follow parental lineage. 

I started with little information. I knew the names of my parents, grandparents, and maternal great-parents.

However, I knew even less about my dad's side of the family. In fact, I never met either one of his parents. Dad's mother died when he was just thirteen years old, and I never met his father. Dad had no respect for the man.

Occasionally I tried to talk about my grandfather, but Dad would either evade the question or indicate he was a no-good drunk. I distinctly remember Dad telling me the man died of cirrhosis of the liver. 

Despite their contentious relationship, I wanted to learn more about this side of the family. However, this proved more difficult than I anticipated. Coleman is a fairly common surname. And even though the 1910 census indicated my great-grandfather was born in Tennesse, that did little to narrow the field of possibilities.

Then one of Ancestry's green shaky leaves suggested I look at a particular death certificate.

EUREKA!!

 This one-sheet document told me far more than the date and cause of death. For example, I learned:

  • My grandfather's date of birth (17 MAY 1909)
  • The exact time of his death (18 FEB 1964 at 9:30 pm)
  • My great-grandfather's full name (William L Coleman - new information to me)
  • My great-grandmother's maiden name (Lillian G Johnson - new information to me)
  • How long my grandfather lived in Corpus Christi (16 years -- I always thought he resided in Houston) and the exact address: 4602 Calvin)
  • The name of the informant (in this case his wife signed her name Mrs. Walter A Coleman - but often a new ancestral relation is revealed)
  • The burial date, cemetery name, and location (21 FEB 1964 - Mission Burial Park - San Antonio, TX)
Of course, the certificate also detailed his cause of death: lung cancer which metastasized to the esophagus and led to starvation. 

Interestingly, there is no mention of liver disease. 

I don't deny my father's story. I'm sure the man drank. Since Dad felt neglected his entire childhood, cirrhosis of the liver better fit Dad's narrative. 

But the facts indicate Walter died of lung cancer because he smoked. Dad smoked too.

Perhaps they were more alike than either wanted to admit.

4 comments:

  1. So interesting, Molly, and proof that sometimes the family "legends" we believe are not the truth after all. I find it fascinating that we can know the actual locations of graves. And wonder if the same is true for First Citizens buried along the Trail of Tears.

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    1. You know... I never understood the fascination of visiting graveyards, but now that I've delved into genealogy research, I am excited to visit the sacred ground of my ancestors. Find-a-Grave is a treasure of useful genealogy information. That will be the subject of another post :)

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  2. I am so excited I have discovered your blog through Dawn's journal prompts. I just wrote to you on your DNA results post, but found this one interesting too. I've been working on my family history and am making new discoveries about my family heritage as well. My paternal grandmother was adopted as an infant, and I have discovered who her birth parents were through my DNA and Ancestry.com. I am reaching out to descendants of her "parents", and slowly but surely some are actually starting to respond to me. I had planned to write about all of this in one big story on my blog in December in memory/honor of my Grandmother's 125th birthday, but your blog here is inspiring me to maybe start writing more about it ahead of time to prepare the way. Interesting that you discovered that your Grandfather didn't have cirrhosis of the liver after all. I discovered that my Great-Grandfather did die of cirrhosis of the liver and rectal cancer. But I also discovered that he was a carpenter by trade, and that explains my own father's skills in carpentry as well as my oldest son's. Little by little I am learning more and more and it is so fascinating. My grandmother didn't know anything about her birth parents, so everything I learn is brand new. It's just too bad she is no longer living for me to share this with her, but I am hoping that she has already met her parents in heaven and they are all looking down at me and cheering me on as I make these new discoveries! At least that is what I imagine. I expect they will be part of the welcoming committee someday when I enter heaven's gates. I am so glad to discover your blog, Molly. You are inspiring me to share more of my story as well. Good luck with your continued research. Isn't it fun? I love it!

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    1. I love this image of your grandmother reuniting with her birth parents and cheering you on from above!!

      My parents were both very quiet about their upbringing. I think, in large part, because each one of them experienced tragic losses that resulted in painful changes that they cared not to revisit. But ever since they both passed (Dad in 2005 and Mom in 2011) I felt compelled to tell their story. Only... I didn't know the story.

      Genealogy research has not only connected me to lost cousins I never knew existed,(although I have yet to connect with a living relative) ... but it has also revealed to me how I fit in this world.

      I heartedly agree... I LOVE genealogy and am grateful to have the time to do the research.

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